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The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave. Published on May 4, 2021 by Simon and Schuster. Disclosures: I received an advance copy for review. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases made through links on this site.
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Here is a table of contents of what you’ll find in this post:
- Plot Summary for The Last Thing He Told Me
- What Was the Ending of The Last Thing He Told Me? What did that remark about “the could have been boys still love you” mean?
- Spoiler Discussion and Questions for The Last Thing He Told Me, including possible Book Club Questions for The Last Thing He Told Me
- Movie News for The Last Thing He Told Me– who is in the cast and what is the release date?
Plot Summary: The Last Thing He Told Me
Hannah, recently married and a new stepmom, opens her front door to see a student at the school where her husband Owen works. The girl says Owen told her his phone was broken and paid her $20 to give a note to Hannah. She opens Owen’s note, which says: Protect Her.

Hannah calls Owen but there’s no response. She then hears on the news that the software start-up where Owen works is being investigated for fraud by the SEC and the FBI.
When Hannah picks up Bailey from play practice that night, Bailey is carrying a large bag that she says Owen left in her locker. The bag contains an apology note from Owen to Bailey and is filled with rolls of money.

Grady Bradford, who claims to be a US Marshal, shows up at Hannah’s house. As she hasn’t adopted Hannah, he advises her to get a lawyer and recommends one. Grady asks Hannah to call him if she hears from Owen and suggests that she should be careful who she trusts.
Hannah searches Owen’s laptop and finds photos of Olivia, Bailey’s mother, some work documents, and a will. Two FBI agents (Naomi and Jeremy) show up to question her. Hannah mentions Grady Bradford to the FBI and they seem confused about who he is.
Hannah calls her ex-boyfriend Jake, a New York City lawyer. He tells her to try to figure out where Owen might have gone. (Um, yeah…)
Based on the area code of Grady’s phone number, Hannah asks Bailey if she ever remembers being in Austin, Texas. Bailey vaguely recalls being in a wedding there, so the two of them fly to Austin. Based on Bailey’s memories, they try to find churches near the UT Austin football stadium, but hit a dead end.
Jake calls and tells Hannah that “Owen Michaels” is a fake identity. He thinks Owen was running from something or someone long before the SEC investigation.
Hannah remembers a guy coming up to Owen and thinking he was someone he knew from Texas. Bailey is shocked to realize that she is probably also living under a fake name.
Hannah combs her memory for stories Owen might have told her about his past, stories that might offer clues. She remembers Owen’s story about a college professor and finds a possible match at UT Austin.

Hannah and Bailey go to talk to the professor, who doesn’t recognize a photo of Owen or remember him, but together they figure out what year Owen was in his class and get the class roster. Bailey and Hannah start researching all the names on the list.
Hannah gets a call from one of the churches in Austin they approached – she may have found the wedding that Bailey remembers attending. Kate, the sister of the groom, looks a lot like Bailey.
They go to the bar owned by the groom, Charlie, who suggests that his sister, Kate, is dead. She shows Charlie a photo of Owen and he flips out. Bailey and Hannah run.

After more research on Charlie and Kate, Hannah remembers a story from several years back about a lawyer named Nicholas who got involved with organized crime. Nicholas’s daughter Kate was murdered, either by the people he worked for or a rival group.
Ethan, Kate’s husband, cooperated with the authorities. Ethan, Nicholas’s son-in-law, is Owen. Bailey is Ethan’s and Kate’s daughter, Kristin. Ethan/Owen and Kristin/Bailey had to go into hiding as Nicholas and his employers were out for revenge.
Bailey vanishes from their hotel room and Grady shows up. He organizes a search for Bailey and tells Hannah that Ethan had to disappear after testifying against his father-in-law.
Grady thinks Owen knew the SEC investigation of the software company would expose his fake identity. He says the safest thing is for Bailey and Hannah to enter witness protection. Once Grady says Bailey has been located, Hannah sneaks out of the hotel and back to the bar where Charlie works.
Hannah asks Charlie to help her speak to Nicholas, his father. Charlie drives Hannah to Nicolas’s house.
Nicholas argues that Ethan/Owen helped him with his work for organized crime, which is how he knew enough to testify. He claims Kate, a state Supreme Court clerk, was killed because of an unrelated case she was working on.

Hannah says she just wants his assurance that she and Bailey will be safe. That Hannah is willing to let Nicholas have a relationship with Bailey in exchange. She tells him Ethan would rather not see Bailey again but know she’s safe.
Grady says the plan is crazy and that she can’t trust Nicholas.
Bailey and Hannah are reunited and Bailey says that she spoke to her dad. He told her he could never come home.
What Was The Ending of The Last Thing He Told Me?
Years later, Bailey is grown up and living in L.A. Hannah sometimes feels like Nicholas’s guys are watching her. One day, Owen comes into an exhibition that is showing some of Hannah’s work. He stands there for just a few minutes. Then he says “the could have been boys still love you.” Then disappears.
WHAT DOES THE COULD HAVE BEEN BOYS STILL LOVE YOU MEAN?
At the very beginning of the book, Hannah says that on their wedding night, Owen grilled her about all the men she left, or who left her. (Weird timing, but okay.) He called them the could-have-been-boys.
When he says “the could-have-been-boys still love you,” I think he was telling her that he still loved her and always would.
Yes, it’s romantic, but geez. There’s a small part of me that thinks he married her because he knew he might have to go on the run. Was he picking a new mom for Bailey more than a wife? And him popping up and telling her he still loves her kind of prevents her from moving on.
Spoiler Discussion for The Last Thing He Told Me
These could be Book Club Discussion questions for the Last Thing He Told Me, or just things that interested me as a reader!

How “real” can a relationship be when it’s based on a huge lie?
We’ve all see stories about men leading double lives and those stories are usually framed as the relationships being fake and a scam. Owen tells a LOT of lies to Hannah about who he is, about his past, about his current work.
And yet, by the end, this is a romance. In a different book, Hannah (and the reader) might have been angrier. I think Bailey is the key to that – Owen lies but he also gives Hannah an important assignment: keep Bailey safe.
How do you think Hannah’s memories of her past with Owen enriched and moved the story forward?

Owen isn’t really even in the story in the present. His presence in the story is filtered through Hannah’s memories. Hannah and Owen met when Owen and his boss came into Hannah’s furniture-making studio. He liked a table that Hannah said wasn’t for sale because its sharp edges could cause injury. (Hello, foreshadowing.)
Hannah calls him Owen after he tells her his name is Ethan (hello, mystical coincidence and more foreshadowing!)
I’m not the biggest fan of flashbacks, but this story clearly needed them. Not only did Hannah’s memories bring Owen more to life, they helped her solve his disappearance.
What did you think of the explanation of Owen’s disappearance?
I liked that it was multi-layered: that underneath what seemed like the reason there was another reason. It was a little hard that the story about Owen/Ethan and Kate was only told through other people, and happened in the past.
I think that was what made the tension level in the story feel lower than it could have. I never felt Hannah and Bailey in danger even though they technically were.
Do you think Ethan thought through the consequences of testifying against his father-in-law? Do you think that is what Kate would have wanted? Did you believe Nicholas that Kate’s death didn’t have anything to do with him?
That part of the story got a little murky for me. I’m not entirely convinced that the murderous crime lords that Ethan/Owen testified would just do whatever Nicholas told them. Why didn’t they kill Nicholas? Or threaten Charlie or his kids? The more I thought about all this, the less it made sense.
What was your favorite part of The Last Thing He Told Me?

I mean, it’s a story of love and sacrifice. But also a more unusual love story, and a narrative about found family. I liked Hannah and I liked the development of Hannah and Bailey’s relationship a lot.
Do you think Ethan/Owen wanted Hannah to solve the mystery of his disappearance?
He tells Hannah to keep Bailey safe. He leaves them money. Did he leave her breadcrumbs to follow so she’d figure out why he really disappeared? Did he think she would accept the explanation of the SEC investigation?
What did you think of the ending of The Last Thing He Told Me?
Yes, it would have been nice (yet more predictable) to let Ethan and Hannah be together. And yet, I’m a sucker for these “doomed romance” things, like the ending of The Age of Innocence. But how did you feel?
Latest News on the movie of The Last Thing He Told Me
The movie rights for The Last Thing He Told Me were optioned by Reese Witherspoon’s Hello Sunshine. Julia Roberts was announced as cast in the role of Hannah, but then in November 2021, Jennifer Garner joined in the role of Hannah and as an Executive Producer.
Here is the current cast for the movie of The Last Thing He Tol Me!

Production on the film seems to have started around May 2022, as both Reese’s Book Club and Jennifer Garner posted on Instagram about it!

The movie will stream on Apple TV. As of now, no date for the release of the movie of The Last Thing He Told Me has been announced.

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Some of YOUR questions in the comments about The Last Thing He Told Me:
Kristy wonders why, when Hannah and “Owen” first meet, she calls him Ethan and he corrects her. What do you think? A joke on the part of the author? A coincidence? A CLUE?
A couple people want to know: did Hannah and Bailey get to keep the bag of money?
So, why does Hannah call Owen Ethan when they first meet???
Wow!! Did you read spoilers first or do you just have an amazing memory? And I wonder if that is a little joke from the author or maybe he just does look like an Ethan? Honestly, if I’d noticed that and remembered it I’d have thought that Hannah was in on the plot the entire time and waited for him to murder him lol.
As soon as Hannah figured out his real name was Ethan I back tracked to the beginning to make sure I read it Correctly! Hannah did call him Ethan when they first met so then my mind went into overdrive and I came to 2 different conclusions.
1. This is why Owen/Ethan was so intrigued by Hannah and asked her a million questions on their second date
2. That is the reason he allowed himself to fall for Hannah because she made him feel like Ethan again.
Definitely agree that he could have seen it as a sign or it helped him fall for her. She saw the “real” him!
what part of the book does Hannah call him Ethan, it is not linear, hard to trace back
Page 14. Still confused why though…
I feel like the book tries to be a little bit mystical/magical. I think calling him Ethan is just an accident (or a mystical accident). It’s the first time she ever met him and I think she botches his name. But it probably jolts him and he remembers her. She says it was love at first sight – maybe she just KNEW his real name and saw through his fake persona…
Totally didn’t circle back to this! Excellent catch!
Could Hannah have met Ethan when she was in college and accompanied Jules on the photo assignment in Austin
Hi Dave! I guess that’s possible – that they crossed paths then and so he seems familiar. Would also explain why she called him Ethan.
The ending is driving me crazy!! I loved the book and sped through it and I loved the ending for Hannah and Bailey and the maternal relationship they have BUT I have so many questions. Mainly do they get back together!! In my head they do (love romance) and did Bailey even reunited with her mother’s family?
Great book but I will agree danger felt low. Can’t wait to see Julia Roberts as Hannah.
Brooke! I didn’t know there was going to be a movie with Julia Roberts!! This does seem like a Julia Roberts kind of movie.
Maybe the movie will up the suspense a little bit. And no, I don’t think Hannah and Ethan/Owen can be officially together but I’m going to think that he will sneak into her life from time to time. And yes, they didn’t ever discuss the reunion with the creepy grandfather!
Yes, hoping it will add the suspense, I loved the pace of the book it was very quick and an easy read. And I heard Reese Witherspoon is producing it into a TV show as it’s also her book of the month for her reading club. Sounds exciting!
Just finished this book. Really liked it, but the ending is driving me crazy! I don’t understand the words he said to her in the exhibition hall – “the could-have-been boys still love you.” What is he referring to?
Hi Danita! I think that refers to a story Hannah told in the prologue. She said Owen joked about the men who’d left her (or that she had left.) He called them the could-have-been boys. He mentions them again after their wedding, and says he tried to learn about them so he wouldn’t become one. Then of course he does. I guess when he pops up like that at the very end looking different, it’s his way of letting Hannah know that it’s definitely him? What do other people think?
Thank you so much! I didn’t read carefully enough. I am going to go back and re-read those sections. I knew it must have referred to something that he had said previously, but just didn’t remember it. Ironically, I did notice that when Hannah first met Owen, she called him Ethan. I think the author was having fun with the readers.
That’s why I love these discussions – everyone brings new observations. I’m a fast reader so I definitely miss things!!!
I agree with this! But I think it also means that, since he is now a could-have-been boy as well, he still loves her!
This totally breaks my heart!
It is sad 🙁
Thank you ! I was confused by that statement as well.
This is my interpretation. He told her when they got married that he’s grateful for the “could have been” boys for leaving so he could have her. When he says “the could have been boys still love you” he’s referring to himself now, since he’s left her. He’s just letting her know that he still loves her.. I think! Haha
I love the interpretation that he’s now a “could have been boy”!!
I liked the ending. I think he wanted to say a final goodbye and let her to go. Give her freedom to move on and meet someone else. Bailey has her life and Hannah needs to be set free.
I agree. Still, I couldn’t get away from this feeling that one of the reasons he married her was that he needed someone to look after Hannah if something happened to him.
I feel like he said that to her because he Tune when they were dating he referred to the guys that she dated before him as they could’ve been boys in so I guess if we can’t be with her she’s letting her know that it’s him because he is going to be one of the could’ve been boys since they can’t be together.
I loved this book! I dont know if Im missing something here but I dont recall the Olivia Michaels plot wrapping up? Hannah didnt think the pictures on Owen’s laptop looked much like Bailey, but when they saw the photos of Kate they knew instantly that she was Bailey’s mother. Are Olivia and Kate one in the same??
I agree – that never really got discussed. I just assumed that Ethan/Owen must have created a fake former wife named Olivia Michaels. I don’t think Olivia is Kate because Ethan/Owen needed to hide his former identity so that he and Bailey could stay safe. I also would have liked to have those dots connected, but since we never hear from Owen except in flashbacks, there would be no way for him to explain what he did.
I think the weird thing about Olivia is that Hannah says that she and Olivia look alike. So maybe Ethan created this fake Olivia, then met Hannah, someone who looked like her, and fell in love with her.
What do you think? Anyone else have an Olivia theory?
I believe this theory, that Hannah looked like “Olivia” and that is what caught Owens attention. So when Hannah remembers mentioning to Owen that she resembles her he made the comment that he didn’t see it and if she had actually met his first wife she would agree. Obviously he was referring to Kate and not the made up Olivia.
Yep, I think her resemblance to “Olivia” and her calling him Ethan were what made him pursue her. And to be cynical he also probably wanted someone to look out for Bailey if something happened to him.
just one thing that I don’t get! I don’t understand how the 12 year old student came into place, for the whole thing, I was sure that the note saying “protect her” was not for Bailey, but for the 12 year old. This doesn’t make sense to me!
You mean the student who delivered the note? I think it was one of Ethan/Owen’s students and he asked her to deliver the note to Hannah. If he’d asked Bailey to deliver it I think that she, as a teenager and his daughter, would have either read it and known something was up, or had a million questions like “Dad why are you being so weird? Just send her a text.” And I think he knew that Hannah would understand.
Confused why Bailey called her mom at the end? Was it just merely that they ended up having a great relationship?
That was my interpretation – that they worked out their relationship and were close.
Hi! not sure if I missed something but does anybody know the connection between Owen and L. Paul? they’re listed as the conservator on the will on Owen’s laptop and if i’m not mistaken also on the piggy bank holding Owen’s real will. I was waiting a long time for there to be some crazy plot twist with that but feel like it was left without resolution.
I don’t think you missed anything – Hannah finds the will on the laptop and says she’d seen it before but doesn’t remember seeing that L Paul was the “conservator.” I thought conservator was a weird word as in the US a will usually has an executor. Then she remembers “Lady Paul” is on Bailey’s piggy bank and remembers that when they had to evacuate, Owen took the piggy bank with them. Jules gets the will inside the piggy bank and it says that Hannah is Bailey’s guardian.
My theory (completely unproven) is this: the will on the laptop was under Ethan’s fake name, so L Paul was just a clue to help Hannah find Ethan’s legal will, the one under his real name and that also mentions Charlie Smith (the real will couldn’t have mentioned Charlie without blowing Owen’s cover). I think that L. Paul, Conservator was just a clue that the piggy bank was holding the real will.
But happy to hear other theories as I am always willing to change my mind!
Wow I think you hit the nail on the head!!! Thank you!
Loved the book. Not ready to let it go or the characters. I could have had way more Jules, what happens with the grandpa and cousins, and also more about this casual run in. The age of technology and his capabilities—I mean, we must be close to figuring out a way for them to communicate.
question: did we sort out who’s wedding it was and when they came home and for what reason?
I was tracking the discovery of his identity and history. His wife’s brothers connection to the bar…but who’s wedding was it and did they only come back before or after the trial? Couldn’t have been after, right?
Hi Courtney! I agree about Jules – I liked her and wished she’d played a bigger part in the story.
Do you mean the wedding that helped them track down Owen’s identity? I think that was Charlie’s wedding to Andrea. I agree that it had to be before the trial, because after that trial was when Ethan/Owen vanished with Kristin/Bailey.
I enjoyed the book until the climax. Did anyone else feel like the book’s outcome would have been exactly the same if she never went to go see Nicholas? The biggest flaw for me is that they never established that Bailey is in any danger. We have the perceived danger of we don’t know what’s going on and then she’s missing, but then she’s found. So problem solved? No. While Bailey is being returned to her she decides to leave to go make a deal with Nicholas that protects Bailey from a threat that doesn’t exist? Did I miss the part where Nicolas can actually help them? She gives Nicolas the possibility to see his granddaughter again in exchange for what?!? Protection from what?!? Did we really believe that Nicholas would be ok with them hurting Bailey? It just all seems to be there for no reason. That being said I still liked what happened after that, but honestly it’s the climax of the book and I think if you skipped it, it would be the same book.
Hi Tiffany! I agree with you. For me, the least convincing part of the book was the Nicholas reveal and visit. For me it might have been more effective if Ethan knew a secret or had some special knowledge that made him dangerous in the present, as opposed to something that happened years and years ago. Also agree that I didn’t get the whole “Nicholas is the only one who can protect Bailey” narrative. Either he cares about her and would try to protect her regardless or he can’t be trusted. And yes, I also think that whole part of the book didn’t seem to change anything.
It bothered me that Bailey wasnt given the opportunity to choose to continue her life as Bailey without her father or a new identity with an intact family. I should think Hannah would understand the horrible feeling of loss when a parent you need is alive but inaccessible.
Hi Cheryl! Do you mean at the end of the book she should have been given the chance to go back to her original name and live with someone connected to one of her biological parents?
I have this strange feeling that Hannah is Kate under disguise from her dad, why did she call him Ethan and why did Bailey call her mom and who would visit an unknown criminal, she knew she was visiting her father.
Ooh I like that idea
Sounds like a good plot, but that doesn’t explain living with her grandfather and learning his wood working craft.