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Secrets of a Blogger: Less Stress More Success

Welcome to the headquarters of Secrets of a Blogger: Less Stress More Success. This is a new series of posts with my tips on how to blog smarter, easier, faster, and with as little stress as possible! Blogging does not have to be stressful!

Secrets of a Blogger: Less Stress More Success

Find all of my Secrets of a Blogger: Less Stress More Success posts here!


We all work so hard at social media. But have you checked to see what social media sites are actually driving traffic to your blog? Check out this post on Which Social Media Sites Are Driving Traffic to Your Blog?– I reveal the surprising results I got by digging into my stats!


Secrets of a Blogger: Things Bloggers Should Worry More (and Less) About

Things Bloggers Should Worry More (And Less About) – When I started blogging, I found that I worried about things that ultimately didn’t matter that much. I worried about things like which blogging platform to use (eh, whatever…). And I didn’t worry about things like where my photos were being hosted, a mistake that tanked an ENTIRE blog). Here are my best tips!


Secrets of a Blogger: How I Got My Instagram Business Account Unlocked

How I Got My Business Instagram Unlocked – If your Instagram account has been deactivated and you are having NO luck getting back in, come read what worked for me. I tried everything for a month but this one simple trick got me back in my account in minutes!


Guide to Social Media Image Sizes for 2021! When you’re a blogger with limited time and resources, keeping up with ALL the different aspects of blogging is hard. Every social media platform handles photos differently and they are always changing their minds! Here’s my Guide to the Best Image Sizes for Social Media in 2021


If you’re on WordPress and want to make your posts look fancier with NO effort, check out these cool features I found: Fun WordPress Block Features For Your Blog Posts.


Are there topics you’d like covered on Secrets of a Blogger? Tell me in comments!

Things Bloggers Should Worry More (And Less) About

10.01.2020 by Jen Ryland // 24 Comments

After nearly ten years of blogging, I decided to make a series of posts containing all my wisdom. The series is called Secrets of a Blogger: Less Stress, More Success. Here’s my take on Things Bloggers Should Worry More (And LESS!) About!

Things Bloggers Should Worry More and Less About

Bloggers have a lot to worry about. What and how often should we post? What’s the best way to get followers? Is anyone reading our posts?

Now that I’ve been blogging for almost ten years, I’ve come to realize a few things. One: I’m a lazy blogger. I want results with the least effort. So I’m working on a series of posts called The Lazy Blogger’s Toolkit.

A second, equally important thing I’ve learned about blogging is this: it’s important to think about and define YOUR blogging goals. Your goals may be different from mine. Your goals may also change as your life changes. And if you know your goals, you can more easily decide if that new thing everyone is talking about is worth your time. I’ll talk about my goal setting in another post.

This post is about where I’ve decided to put my attention. That will obviously be different for everyone, but over the years I have learned that some of my blogging worries weren’t as important as I thought. Conversely, I decided that there were other things I should have thought about A LOT more.

I’d love to hear YOUR opinions in comments!


Here Are Four Things I Think Bloggers Can Worry Less About:

1. Worry Less About What Platform You Use

When I started blogging in 2011 many (most?) of us used Blogger. If we were fancy and wanted to spend money, we got a custom URL and blog design. Then, around 2012, Google started shutting some things down (like GFC) and we all panicked. Was Blogger going to be phased out? It seemed possible, driving many bloggers to switch to WordPress. In 2015, Google also started shutting down blogs with content they deemed “adult” (which sometimes included explicit romance content and also drove people to leave the platform.)

I’ve blogged on both Blogger and WordPress. I think that for a free platform, Blogger is amazing. I loved using it and sometimes I miss it.

Yes, I have more freedom on WordPress, but it’s also a lot more work. And a lot more money. I now pay for hosting, a URL, and a WordPress theme. So again: what are your blogging goals? If they are to spend as little as possible, I think Blogger is a really good option.


2. Worry Less About How Often You Post

When I started blogging in 2011, most book bloggers posted almost daily. I felt guilty taking even one day off a week. Not only was that CRAZY, I think it was counterproductive.

Unless you have co-bloggers or your blog is a major source of income, daily blog posts are probably too exhausting for most of us. Is anyone out there reading our each and every post? I doubt it. Fewer posts can give you time to create higher quality posts. Also, you may find that fewer posts equals more engagement on each one.

As I started putting up one to three posts a week instead of six or seven, I enjoyed blogging more. Over the past couple years, I have focused more on creating new types of content. Yes, I’ll discuss all my lazy content creation tips in another post.


3. Worry Less About Blog “Followers”

People blog for different reasons. Some want to join (or create) a community, others want to monetize their content or promote a business or service. Some bloggers want to do more than one of those things.

When I started blogging in 2011, we were all obsessed with getting people to “follow” our blogs. We watched our Google Friend Connect numbers and discussed how to get them higher. Raise your hand if you remember these little faces:

Things Bloggers Should Worry Less About: Is chasing blog followers even worth it?

Blog “followers” come in many forms. Some people might get to your blog through a Twitter link. Some might read it regularly in an RSS feeder, like Feedly or Bloglovin. Others might subscribe to your newsletter and click on a link from time to time. Saying you want more “followers” can mean a lot of different things.

What kinds of followers do you want? What kind are aligned with your blogging goals?

If being part of a community is your goal, maybe getting (and leaving) a lot of comments, finding friends, and being active on social media is important to you.

If you are trying to monetize your blog, maybe you need to worry more about things like page views and sessions and unique visitors. I will talk more about that in another post.

Maybe you’ve decided you enjoy social media more than blogging (I will discuss in a later post why I think that, depending on your goals, that is not without risk). But if that’s the case, maybe you don’t need to worry about blog “followers” at all. You can just use the blog as your home base on the internet and try to build your follower base elsewhere.


4. Just Stop Worrying About Doing It All

I think as bloggers we ALWAYS compare ourselves to others and think that we need to be doing ALL the things.

For me, it has been more enjoyable and productive to figure out what my goals are, then decide what how I can best (and most lazily) achieve them.

I recently spent some time looking at my blog analytics, something I will talk more about in a later post. My analytics revealed this:

The majority of my blog readers don’t get to my blog through social media. But ONE social media platform was by far the best driver of traffic to my blog.

Now, that may not be the case for you. But discovering this information was very liberating to me. (I also accept that this could be a “chicken and egg” situation. Chatting with my blogging friends on social media is something I enjoy. My acquisition numbers could reflect my use of social media as a communication device.)

However, I also think that the dreaded new social media “algorithms” have made it MUCH harder to get your tweets and photos noticed without paying to promote them.

I’d rather use social media to chat with my friends and find other (lazier) ways to drive traffic to my blog.


Four Things Bloggers Might Want to Worry More About

Now that we have discussed Things I Think Bloggers Should Worry Less About, Let’s Talk About The Things I’ve Realized I Should Have Worried More About. No surprise, they are less fun and glamorous, but (I think) ultimately more important.

1. Check How Fast Your Blog Pages Load

Why should you care about this? Because your readers do. If your blog post takes forever to load, potential readers might give up and close the window. You don’t have total control of how fast your site loads, as some of that depends on your hosting and how much money you’re willing to spend on it. Luckily, no matter what your platform and hosting situation, there are free and easy ways to make your site load faster!

First, find out fast your site loads. Go to a free speed checker like GTMetrix and type in your URL. See mine below. Yay- my site got a 95! If your loading speed is good, high five!

Is Your Blog Too Slow To Load

Some simple (and free) things you can do to make your site load faster:

These tips work both on Blogger and on WordPress!

First off, are you using a lot of large images?

Pretty pictures are great. But lots of huge images can also slow down your blog’s loading time.

Images have two sizes: image pixel dimensions (width and height in pixels), or the image file size (KB or MB). You can resize large images pretty easily. (You can do it on a Mac in a few seconds. Just click on the image and in Preview, select Tools and Adjust Size).

If you’re on WordPress, you can you can find plug-ins that will compress your images to help them load even faster. You can also install plug-ins that cache, which makes your blog load faster.

If you’re on Blogger, don’t despair about your lack of access to plug-ins. Here are some things you can do: 1) go in your settings and limit the number of posts on your homepage; 2) use the “read more” feature for your posts, and 3) get rid of any unnecessary widgets and gadgets. Don’t be sad. Remember, Google Friend Connect is defunct 🙂


2. Make Sure You Are Backing Up Your Site!

We put hours and hours and hours into our sites and then we forget to back them up. Nooooo… don’t make that mistake! Protect all your hard work!

If you’re on Blogger, it’s SO easy to back up. Just go into Settings (on orange on the left) and then scroll down to Manage Blog. Click Back Up Content. You’ll get an .xml file (titled with the date, which is so handy). Save that in case you ever need it.

If you’re on WordPress, install a backup plug-in and the magic will happen automatically. I use Updraft, but there are other options too.


3. Make Sure Your Site Is Mobile Friendly

So much has changed in the nine years I’ve been blogging. Aa of 2020, 66% of my blog readers access my site on mobile devices. Only 29% read my blog on the roomier screen of a desktop or laptop, and 5% on a tablet.

Things Bloggers Should Worry More About: Mobile! How many of your readers read your blog on a mobile phone?

I love my laptop and I do most of my blogging and blog reading on it. Realizing that the majority of my blog post readers access my blog on mobile devices was a wake-up call. I needed to make sure my site was mobile friendly (according to Google). Google will penalize you in search results if you aren’t, and readers may give up if your site is hard to read or navigate on their phones.

First, go to this Google Mobile Friendly Test Site Page and put in your blog’s URL. Whew, I passed!

Is Your Blog Mobile Friendly?

Okay, even if Google gives you the thumbs up, there’s also the aesthetics of the mobile version of your site. I checked mine and .. NOT GREAT. There were some seriously wonky things going on. I’m so sorry, my 66% mobile readers – I’ve been working to improve that.

If you don’t usually access your own site on mobile (I didn’t that often) grab your phone and take a look. Navigate around and see how easy it is. Do you have pop-up that block your content? Are your photos a good size? Do you have clickable links that work?


4. Find Out What Your Readers Want To Read

How do you know what readers want? I mean, most of the time people don’t say they didn’t like your posts. But there is a way to find out how many people are reading them.

Have you ever looked at your analytics?

For years and years, I really hadn’t. At all. If you don’t care about analytics, that’s totally fine. Looking at my analytics really helped me see what my readers were responding to. It was incredibly interesting. It didn’t change how I blogged that drastically, but I did use the information to help me get more views on my most popular posts and also get ideas for new posts. I’ll go deeper into analytics in a future post.

Thanks for reading this Secrets of a Blogger Post on Things Bloggers Should Worry More (And Less) About. I hope you’ll share your thoughts and ask questions in comments. If you are interested in these kind of topics, please keep an eye out for my future posts! Or subscribe! (Yes, one of my blogging goals is to work on my email subscribers.)

You can find the entire list of Secrets of a Blogger posts here!

Categories // Blogging Tags // blogging tips

Sneak Peek: My List for ARC August!

08.06.2020 by Jen Ryland // 10 Comments

I’ve never participated in ARC August but I think this is the year to join. Since I’m trapped inside so much, I may have gone a little crazy requesting e-ARCs and I need to get them read. Check out my List for ARC August!

My List for ARC August

What’s ARC August? It’s a fun and no-pressure readathon for ARCs (or advance reader copies) hosted by the lovely ladies at Read.Sleep.Repeat.

My List for ARC August:

I’ll give you a little background on each book and how I picked it. I generally try to read ARCS in publication date order so that’s the way these are organized. My goal is to get through at least the five August releases and then do the best I can to get to some September titles.

AUGUST RELEASES

August 4: The Night Swim by Megan Goldin – I’ve been reading thrillers like crazy during the pandemic. This one is podcast inspired, which I love, so I was excited to dive in (hahaha see what I did there?) Now that I’ve finished, I can say that was a tough read about sexual assault – my review will be up next week! ADULT- FINISHED!

August 4: The Comeback by Ella Berman – This just got announced as a Today Show book club pick. It’s a Hollywood story with #MeToo themes. I’m reading this now! ADULT – FINISHED!


August 18: Who’s That Earl? by Susanna Craig – I’ve also been reading a lot of romances lately. I have not had the best luck with historical romance recently, but this one has a cool modern cover and is set in Scotland. Fingers crossed! ADULT

August 18: Three Perfect Liars by Heidi Perks – okay, this cover and title makes it seem like a cross between Little Fires Everywhere and Big Little Lies … and I was drawn in. ADULT

August 18: The Less Dead by Denise Mina – I have been a Mina fan for a very long time and I loved Conviction so much – I was jumping up and down when I got approved. ADULT.

August 18: Loathe at First Sight by Suzanne Park – I really enjoyed Park’s YA debut so I’m excited about this one! ADULT.


SEPTEMBER RELEASES

September 1: When No One Is Watching by Alyssa Cole. Hello, thriller set in Brooklyn. You are perfect for me! ADULT.


September 1: Inconvenient Woman by Stéphanie Buelens – Okay, I DID say I was reading a lot of thrillers. This one sounds pretty dark, about a woman who is convinced that her ex-husband killed their daughter. ADULT.


September 8: All Stirred Up by Brianne Moore – I have two rom coms with cooking themes coming up (the other in October) and I’m excited. ADULT.


September 8: One by One by Ruth Ware – This author does the whole “trapped with a killer” trope so well. This time it’s a corporate retreat that gets snowed in. Sounds like And Then There Were None! ADULT.


September 8: Nobody Knows But You by Annica Mrose Rissi – finally a YA, this one a thriller. YA.


September 8: These Vengeful Hearts by Katherine Laurin – another YA, this one about a secret society. YA.


September 15: Grown by Tiffany D. Jackson – a young, aspiring singer is caught up in the death of a male R & B artist. YA.


September 22: And Now She’s Gone by Rachel Howzell – Yep, another thriller. Sorrynotsorry. A “cat and mouse game between two complicated women.” ADULT.


September 29: Ties That Tether by Jane Igharo – a woman who has promised her mother she’d marry a Nigerian man must struggle with her promise. ADULT.

Are you participating? Link me up to your list in comments! If you’re not, are you planning to read any of these?

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Five Controversial Book Review Words

11.15.2019 by Jen Ryland // 21 Comments

Five Controversial Book Review Words

I’ve been thinking recently about five words used in book reviews and the (sometimes unintended) controversy they can provoke. Words that to some people might seem complimentary or neutral, but to someone else…

… they’re fighting words.

We can probably all agree that words like “boring” or “fantastic” or “amazing” or “pretentious” are pretty clear-cut, but I’ve also been noticing a few words book reviewers use that seem to stir up a lot of controversy. Or at least make you wonder: was that intentional shade?

Five Controversial Book Review Words:

Trope: I love discussing tropes in books. I use the term “trope” to refer to a type of narrative that’s familiar to most people. Like a hate-to-love relationship or a rags-to-riches storyline. There are tropes I like and tropes I personally dislike or even find offensive. But some people seem to perceive the word “trope” itself as derogatory no matter what the context. (Merriam Webster calls a trope a “common or overused theme or device” so that just adds to the confusion.) Is “overused” a bad thing? Are there even any original ideas left out there? And, most importantly, can there ever be too many hate to love plots? Me: no way!

Here’s a book that I found tropes in and still loved!


Predictable: This is another word that’s tricky. Is calling a story “predictable” a negative? I guess it all depends on the genre you’re reading and what you’re looking for in a book. I will admit to describing stories as predictable while still liking them. To me, predictable means that I, personally, was successfully able to predict what was going to happen. But that doesn’t mean someone else won’t find the same story completely surprising. Or that a predictable story (like a HEA romance) can’t be utterly enjoyable at the same time.

Here’s an example of a book I found predictable and enjoyed a lot!


Unlikeable:  Calling a character “unlikeable” could mean that character was appropriately unlikeable in the context of the story. It could mean that while you enjoyed the story and found the character compelling and well-written, you wouldn’t want to be friends with them in real life.  It could mean that you couldn’t stand the character AT ALL. I think some of the most interesting and compelling characters are unlikeable, so I don’t necessarily see this as an insult. But opinions vary!

Here’s a book with a main character a lot of people found unlikeable, but I absolutely loved!


Unrealistic:  Another very subjective word, and one which I don’t use often in reviews. Still, I will argue that saying something is unrealistic is NOT necessarily saying it is inaccurate. Calling something “unrealistic” in a story usually just means that one individual person didn’t find something plausible as described in the story and when compared to their own life experience. It doesn’t mean that another person might see the exact same thing as believable and authentic.

Here’s a trope (ha!) that’s pretty unrealistic … but I love it!


Young: This is another word that some YA readers and authors can feel touchy about. From time to time I do highlight a book as “young YA” not as criticism, but as a way to a) tell adult readers of YA that the narrative voice or themes or plot felt a little on the young side for me and b) let parents know that the book might be a great option for advanced middle grade readers ready to delve into YA. I just read a great article about this called Where Are the Books For Tweens? If you’re looking for books for readers like this, you’re in luck, as I am preparing a list for later this week!

Hope you enjoyed my line-up of some controversial words in book reviews. As a reader or reviewer or reader of reviews (or all three!) how do you feel about these reviewing words? Do you use them? Avoid them?  Are there other words that get you in a fighting mood?

Tell me in comments!

Categories // Blogging Tags // blogging, discussion post

Taking a break from an author

08.29.2019 by Jen Ryland // 10 Comments

Is there an author whose books you absolutely loved … until you didn’t? Let’s talk about taking a break from an author!

I was recently writing this review for two books by an author whose books I stopped reading for years after the very unexpected death of a major character. (Interestingly, the situation was VERY similar to what happened in Veronica Mars S4. But the story of that author break-up was probably more complicated than that, including the fact that my reading taste had changed.)

This made me think about taking a break from an author. The reasons could be two-fold: maybe their books changed, or maybe you did. In the first scenario, maybe they killed off a beloved character or sank your favorite ship. In the second, maybe their books stayed exactly the same (even too much the same?) and you decided you wanted to go in a different direction?

I’ve had this happen a few times. I can be kind of an obsessive reader (and person) and sometimes I just burn out on a particular kind of book. Or there was another thriller writer I read religiously and then the quality of his books suddenly seemed to go way downhill, like he was just cranking them out on auto-pilot, so I took a break. (Thankfully, he got back on track.) And while I like authors who make risky, gutsy choices, I don’t like it when it seems like an author kills off a character who’s inconvenient or has lost their usefulness.

In the case of the first author I took a break from, I recently went back to re-assess and decided that I would read her standalone books, but that her series books just weren’t for me anymore as a reader.

Have you taken a break from an author? Did you go back? Tell me about it in comments!

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This Summer I’m Feeling Stuck!

07.18.2019 by Jen Ryland // 15 Comments

Hey, long time no see!

Summer is usually a time when I’m super-busy, reading and looking forward to a trip.

This summer has been a little different. I went on a couple short trips in the spring and will do another one in the fall, but this summer I am (yay?) staying put in New York. (And at the moment, sweltering.)

THIS SUMMER I’M FEELING STUCK

I’ve also been feeling a little off balance lately. I struggle with anxiety and mine has been bad. Someone close to our family died very unexpectedly, and I’m struggling with that. Summer is also the anniversary of something very difficult for me personally, and I had that to contend with. I think it’s just been a lot at once. There’s nothing really wrong with me specifically, but I think that also makes me feel guilty. Why can’t I get it together??

I find in these situations that it’s good for me to get back into a routine and feeling at least semi-productive. Accountability! So I’m going to try to get back into a reading and blogging routine, get back on Instagram and Twitter. I always feel better when I get to talk to my blogging and reading friends.

How is your summer going? If it’s great, I’d love to hear about it. If you have funny, romantic, escapist books you’ve read and loved, please tell me about them! If you have tips for me about how to get out of a general life slump – please, fill me in!

A while back I wrote a Mood Read post about what to read when you’re anxious and I think I need to go check that out!

Categories // Blogging Tags // blogging, mood reads

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